Mar 08 2008

The Sappy Soapies

Published by Brillig at 10:19 pm under Soap Opera Sunday

Soap Opera Sunday is here—better late than never, right? Our dearest Kate was planning to host today, but tragedy took her away for the weekend, so you’re stuck with me. If you’re playing along too, please enter your link. If you’re dying to play along, but you’ve been living under a rock and have not yet heard HOW to play, click here.

And so the Blake saga continues… (part 1, part 2, part 3, part holy-crap-are-there-really-four-parts-before-this-part)

So I called Blake… and I got his voicemail— which had actually happened a lot while we were dating, because he was insane and working the graveyard shift (which meant that he slept all day and was basically impossible to get a hold of) and I was a normal human who worked during human hours. Just one more way that we couldn’t understand each other at all. Anyway, I wasn’t quite sure what to say to his voicemail. I think I ended up with something clever like, “Hi, this is Brill. I’ve been thinking about you a lot, and I miss you, and I’m wondering if I can see you sometime? Maybe? Um… call me… or not… you know… whatever… But, um, I miss you. Yeah, I just wanted you to know that I miss you and that I’ve been thinking about you a lot, and that I’d like to see you. Soon. I mean, if you want to. Yeah…”

Well, he must have been stunned by my grace and eloquence, because the next morning as I headed out to my car, I found that he’d been there during the night. There was a card and roses. Lots of roses.

Apparently, he was willing to see me again.

And suddenly, we were back together again, this time for reals.

My parents, by the way, were thrilled that we got back together. You see, many months before— before Blake and I had started dating, and before my parents had left for Chile, my dad had had a chance meeting with Blake and had been immensely impressed. My dad had asked me at the breakfast table the next morning, “so, are you interested in Blake?” I’d been kinda floored by the question, because I WAS interested in Blake but hadn’t said a word about it to anyone yet. I was flabbergasted enough by the question that I blurted out that yes, I liked him very much. My dad smiled and said, “good.” He’d been sitting on the sidelines, cheering Blake on, ever since.

Blake told me his side of the story about the days that we’d been apart, telling me how difficult, dark, sad they were. We’d both learned a lot about ourselves during that time. We both learned that we loved each other very much, and we never wanted to be apart again.

I guess breaking up was kinda the best thing that could have happened to our relationship… because now we knew.

And so, on my 22nd birthday, he wrote my father an email, asking for his blessing. He then took me on a drive up the canyon and stopped at one of our favorite places. We got out and walked for a bit, and then he got down on one knee and asked for my hand in marriage. I was crying, he was crying, and somehow I managed to choke out the word, ‘YES!!!!”

(Yes, I know you’re about to vomit from the sappiness. Sorry…)

After that wonderful moment, we raced down the canyon back to Kate’s apartment and I walked in to a surprise birthday party for me (because did I mention that I have the awesomest BFF ever?) and it was so perfect, because the room was full of my dearest friends and we were able to make our big announcement. We were getting married!!!

And that’s when the REAL soapiness began…

(to be continued… again…)

18 Responses to “The Sappy Soapies”

  1. Kimberlyon 09 Mar 2008 at 12:18 am

    The best soaps are the ones that go on into eternity, right? How very, very lovely, Brill!

  2. Thalia's Childon 09 Mar 2008 at 11:01 am

    Oh my goodness! I’m so confused and mystified. Is this the actual guy you marry??

  3. Jen in MIon 09 Mar 2008 at 12:27 pm

    I’m with Ella on this one…

  4. juliaon 09 Mar 2008 at 12:56 pm

    I’ll never vomit from sappiness. Never!

  5. Summeron 09 Mar 2008 at 1:30 pm

    No, not to be continued! I have to know if this is who you’re currently married to!!

  6. VirtualSpriteon 09 Mar 2008 at 2:20 pm

    Well… sometimes you just need to be sappy. At least you recognized it! =)

    I can’t wait to read the rest!!!!! This will keep me on my toes all week!

    (Hope everything else is going okay in your life… We’re thinking about you here.)

  7. Novembranceon 09 Mar 2008 at 3:07 pm

    Are you kidding? I thought you were wrapping it up this week! Holy cow.

    (Take it as a compliment that I want to scream, “You’re NOT ending it there!)

  8. Hillaryon 09 Mar 2008 at 3:34 pm

    I broke up with my hubby twice before we finally decided to get married. It was also just what we needed to know for sure about us. Love your story!

  9. canadianflakeon 09 Mar 2008 at 4:44 pm

    wowwwwzers…can’t wait to read what happened next…..wish it was next Sunday already…lmao.

  10. Kateastropheon 09 Mar 2008 at 6:55 pm

    I totally am the best BFF (redundant much?) ever :) I’m very intrigued by the continuation . . . what could possibly happen next?!?!

  11. Shellieon 09 Mar 2008 at 7:47 pm

    Agggh! What next?

  12. janethesaneon 09 Mar 2008 at 8:14 pm

    Woo hooo…I love this story :)

  13. soccer mom in denialon 10 Mar 2008 at 5:43 pm

    AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW……

  14. MommasWorldon 11 Mar 2008 at 6:42 am

    I really enjoy reading these. What a sweet place to propose. Talk about keeping up with the times….instead of having a scary sit down with the soon to be Father-In-Law an email was sent. Guys now a days have it so much easier and they just don’t know it. :-)

  15. Bryanon 11 Mar 2008 at 4:09 pm

    *sigh*!

  16. Catty Gramma Terion 14 Mar 2008 at 1:00 pm

    You are so soapy!

  17. Butrfly Gardenon 26 Mar 2008 at 12:10 pm

    ???? I know I don’t have a right to be pushy since I’m almost a month late, but is there going to be some kind of follow up to this??

  18. Alison Wonderlandon 16 Apr 2008 at 4:01 am

    I just stumbled across your blog but I love the idea of Soapy Sundays and I was really digging your story and then… nothing. Crickets. WHAT NEXT? I get the impression that you didn’t marry him but honestly, I gotta know.
    -Al

    PS Love your blog.

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